As any good sugar baby can tell you, finding yourself in the perfect sugar relationship is only partially about attracting, meeting, and landing the right sugar daddy for you. The rest is all about keeping him absolutely enchanted once he’s yours, as sugar daddies are looking for relationships that are truly next-level.
Naturally, you already know a lot of the usual tips. You know to always look your best. You understand the importance of being kind and supportive. But every sugar baby should have a few unique moves when it comes to keeping a really great daddy hooked on her. Here are a few to add to your repertoire.
1. Openly love your life
If you’ve ever had a best friend, a sister, or even a coworker with an unusually sunny disposition, then you already know how infectious a winning attitude can really be. The effect of a positive attitude is even more powerful within a romantic relationship, especially when it comes attached to a beautiful, vivacious young woman.
So don’t be afraid to be happy and really embrace the joy of life for all that it is. That’s a trait no sugar daddy can resist in a sugar baby, and it’s sure to leave him craving more of you when you’re not around.
2. Set and maintain boundaries
While it’s true that men do like to be pleased, prioritized, and catered to sometimes, they’re not looking to date spineless people-pleasers or doormats. A good sugar daddy loves nothing more than a single sugar baby with a robust sense of self who has no trouble setting heathy boundaries within her relationships.
So be true to yourself when it comes to your personal boundaries. Hold your partners to the same high standards you hold yourself, and help them strive to be their very best. Good men respect and love women who know their worth and expect other people to know it, too.
3. Brag about him
Every sugar baby knows how important it is to encourage her partner and stroke his ego every now and then. After all, it just plain feels good to hear nice things about yourself coming from the mouth of someone you’re crazy about, especially if you know she really means them.
But it feels even better to know that the person you’re crazy about likes you so much that they talk you way up to other people, as well. So don’t be afraid to show how proud you are of your sugar daddy by bragging on him a little bit, either right in front of him or behind his back. It’s a powerful way to make him fall hard and stay entranced by you.
4. Let him have his space
Even really great sugar babies often make the mistake of clinging too tightly to their sugar daddies. After all, it just feels so good to be near him and all seems right with the world when you’re together. Isn’t more always better when it comes to a really good thing?
In actuality, it’s crucial to remember that men need their space, especially when those men are also busy sugar daddies with demanding professional lives. They need time, space, and room to decompress and spend time in their own company. Give it to him, and it won’t be long before he’s seriously hooked.
5. Care about his family
Depending on the seriousness of your relationship, you may or may not have been introduced to your guy’s family yet. But when and if that happens, it’s important to recognize just what a big deal that is to a sugar daddy. It’s his way of showing you he’s serious about you and feels comfortable welcoming you into the lives of people he dearly loves.
So the best thing you can do is love your guy’s family as fiercely as if they were your own. This goes double for his mother, as mothers always hold an extra special place in the hearts of their sons.
6. Feed him once in a while
Most modern men don’t expect their female partners to take it upon themselves to cook and clean for them. However, in a world where men and women alike are less likely to have mastered skills like cooking and baking, a sugar baby who not only knows how to cook but genuinely likes to stands out in all the right ways.
If you really want to hook your daddy, master a couple of signature dishes and surprise him with a good, old-fashioned, home-cooked meal now and then. Nothing says “I care about you” quite like making the effort to feed them well.
And of course, there are plenty of other things you can do to get a guy totally hooked on you and keep him eager for more, but the above are great places to start. Just always be your best and remember to give as well as you get.